Writings
Stories from the Wild Life.
Apocalypse Survival Guide
These are not easy times. The entire world is undergoing a huge transition, with no return to normal in sight. Many of us are sheltering-in-place in our homes for the forseeable future. One by one, our creature comforts are getting stripped away. Yes, it’s been challenging, but I’ve also been learning to ride these waves…
Read MoreGet Hip on Modern Sexual Lingo
Have you been sitting on some confusion about all these new sexual labels, but don’t wanna look like an idiot by asking your friends or random people you’re meeting? Allow me to help. I will define everything in the above image. What does Asexual Mean? ASEXUAL = A person who prefers to not have sex. Depending…
Read MoreWhat Is “Empathy” Anyway?
Every Fall, the Universe sends me a new lover. As a Relationship Coach, sometimes it feels hard to date, because I’m used to a certain type of relating that frankly, not everyone knows how to do. If I were to only date other trained intimacy coaches and therapists, I would not have this problem. Yet, turns out…
Read MoreSex, Sensuality & Attachment Are Not the Same Thing… So What Do You Really Want? Confessions of a Polysensual Woman
What does sex mean to you? Do you enjoy pleasure for pleasure’s sake? Meeting a sexy someone, feeling turned on, and consummating the act with a fulfilling fuck? Or are you more of a romantic, weaving elaborate fantasies about sharing a future with this person, as soon as you feel a spark of attraction? Have…
Read MoreWhy Everyone on the Planet Should Be Practicing Tantra (if they wanna)
From a young age, we are taught through the media that sex, romance and relationship is…. everything. The key to happiness. Many of us awkwardly blunder through dating and finally find ourselves in a relationship, ready to experience the bliss we saw at the movies. And maybe we do for like a year. But then…
Read MoreHow I Replaced Sugar with Cuddles
Backstory I grew up in a family of man haters. Not overt man haters. Just women who had been kinda fucked over by men. My Gramma Frieda had been married to Bernie and to this day, I still don’t know the awful thing that must have happened, but something catalyzed her to get a divorce,…
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