These are not easy times. The entire world is undergoing a huge transition, with no return to normal in sight. Many of us are sheltering-in-place in our homes for the forseeable future. One by one, our creature comforts are getting stripped away. Yes, it's been challenging, but I've also been learning to ride these waves thanks to many great resources which are currently being shared for free or by donation online. Below is a list I'm compiling as I go, of resources that have ... Read the Post
Apocalypse Survival Guide
Get Hip on Modern Sexual Lingo
Have you been sitting on some confusion about all these new sexual labels, but don’t wanna look like an idiot by asking your friends or random people you’re meeting? Allow me to help. I will define everything in the above image. What does Asexual Mean? ASEXUAL = A person who prefers to not have sex. Depending on the person, this may include other forms of sensual or erotic energy exchange, or not. Maybe they like cuddling. Maybe they don’t like touching at all. They may still ... Read the Post
What Is “Empathy” Anyway?
Every Fall, the Universe sends me a new lover. As a Relationship Coach, sometimes it feels hard to date, because I’m used to a certain type of relating that frankly, not everyone knows how to do. If I were to only date other trained intimacy coaches and therapists, I would not have this problem. Yet, turns out there are lots of cuties out there who I want to connect with, who do not possess these qualifications. After connecting with a delightful new man for a few weeks, ... Read the Post
Sex, Sensuality & Attachment Are Not the Same Thing… So What Do You Really Want? Confessions of a Polysensual Woman
What does sex mean to you? Do you enjoy pleasure for pleasure’s sake? Meeting a sexy someone, feeling turned on, and consummating the act with a fulfilling fuck? Or are you more of a romantic, weaving elaborate fantasies about sharing a future with this person, as soon as you feel a spark of attraction? Have you ever found yourself in a long term relationship with someone who you’re undoubtedly in love with, but not feeling super attracted to anymore? Have you ever had a wonderful ... Read the Post
Why Everyone on the Planet Should Be Practicing Tantra (if they wanna)
From a young age, we are taught through the media that sex, romance and relationship is…. everything. The key to happiness. Many of us awkwardly blunder through dating and finally find ourselves in a relationship, ready to experience the bliss we saw at the movies. And maybe we do for like a year. But then something happens. Disconnection. Fighting. Boredom. Loneliness. Codependency. Bad sex. Mediocre sex. No sex. When we hit our edges sexually or relationally, it’s tempting to ... Read the Post
How I Replaced Sugar with Cuddles
Backstory I grew up in a family of man haters. Not overt man haters. Just women who had been kinda fucked over by men. My Gramma Frieda had been married to Bernie and to this day, I still don’t know the awful thing that must have happened, but something catalyzed her to get a divorce, even back before that was really A Thing. I always wonder if he cheated on her with his second wife Sylvia, who came along awfully quickly. But I never had the courage to ask. And now they are all dead. But ... Read the Post