Do you feel like your relationship or sex life isn’t quite working?
Are you exhausted and overwhelmed but still feel pressure to take care of others?
Most women give so much.
Many single ladies feel like their energy is spread so thin that even dating can feel like a chore. At the end of a long day, a bath with your cat staring at you sounds much more appealing.
And the partnered gals often don't fare much better. Between balancing work, relationships, and kids/ family life, it can often feel like there isn't really any time left over for ... you.
Yet, somehow, at the end of the day, when you just want to veg out on your iPad and look at cute shoes... he is there, wanting sex.
And you know you love him. You know you're attracted to him (or used to be?) . . .
So why isn't your body responding?
You start wondering if maybe you're broken.
And you cringe a little when he moves towards you, because you're dreading another fight about sex.
what if i told you
Most people do not understand how female sexual response works.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are not broken.
You - and probably your partner - are simply under-informed and under-practiced in the Art of Pleasure.
what happens to most women
Most women are trained from a young age to be very sensitive to everyone else's needs at risk of sacrificing their own.
Many women don't even really know their own boundaries.
What’s worse, most women grow up with sexual experiences that are either fully traumatic or 'just' extremely uncomfortable.
News Flash:
Having your vagina touched when you are not actually aroused enough to fully want that counts as trauma to your body. Even if your people-pleasing brain said "It's ok. I know he really wanted to get off."
Additionally, so many women put up strong walls, due to years of being inappropriately sexualized or harassed in settings like the street, the grocery store, or work.
Ladies, this takes a toll on our relationship and intimacy lives!
In our hyper-driven society, many women also learn to operate from a "masculine" energy of Go-Go-Go, hyper "yang" and getting shit done, at the detriment of being able to be 'in their feminine,' aka relaxed, open, and in surrender.
They invest precious time and energy into getting things done, but at the end of the day, they feel depleted and never get the fulfillment they are hoping for.
And that’s because they haven't learned how to.
You deserve to feel rested, happy, sexually satisfied, and cared for by your friends, partners, family, and colleagues.
Isn't it time you claimed the pleasure that is your birthright?
Otherwise... what's all this work for, anyway?
Hi, I'm Regina
I help women release stress, fatigue and overwhelm and come back to their center.
I can help you connect with your body, emotions, and sexuality on a level where your primal magnetism and raw sensuality increases.
Where you start knowing exactly what you DO and DON'T want - in bed, at work, in life - and how to ask for it in a way that will get your requests honored.
So then, inner peace and pleasure become easily accessible.
And not just in bed. But also, in bed 😉
MY UNIQUE METHOD FOR WOMEN's WORK
I work with women using a modality called Somatica™ Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coaching. It’s like a mix of Somatic Therapy and Sex Therapy.
I combine the Somatica Method with other tools like Tantra, Yoga & Meditation, Spiritual & Energetic Work, Holistic Wellness & Stress Reduction Coaching, and Hakomi Counseling.
This potent toolkit helps couples create lasting transformation. It does more than just put a band-aid on the issue or give techniques for how to “manage.” This work will help you heal the root causes. It will bring you closer to your loved ones, AND help you feel more connected to yourself.
And unlike most methods of therapy, this is what it actually takes to solve sexual challenges.
This is not typical therapy. It’s so much more.
i've helped women
- Heal from traumas like miscarriage, illness, sexual trauma
- Bring the fun & hotness back to sex . . . even after fertility issues
- Stop obsessing about unavailable people
- Learn to manifest & magnetize
- Reduce Stress, Overwhelm, & Chronic Fatigue
- Figure out what type of relationship structure is right for them
- Recover after an affair
- Work through disagreements in parenting styles
- Stop getting so triggered
- Feel more emotionally connected to the people they are close with
- Helped low-desire women find deeper levels of turn on
- Learn tantra for more spiritually-connected sex
- Develop better boundaries
- Learn to prioritize their own needs and desires
What Clients Are Saying
MASTER AT CREATING SACRED SPACE
"Regina is a master at creating sacred space.
As a facilitator, she is able to open, bring in, and direct energies of power, thoughtfulness and deep, groundedness to provide a safe space for growth, reflection, and information - whatever needs to come through for the highest good of all involved.
I felt very supported in my personal journey and her guidance has been a very powerful tool.
I feel blessed and honored to have had the opportunity to work with Regina and plan to again in the future." ~ Tara
NO LONGER FROZEN
"I feel less shut down than when we started. I realized that it's not my job to take care of him and that I don't have to live in a toxic environment." ~ Amanda
FOR THE FIRST TIME, I Don't feel broken
"I've never shared the connection between my abuse and my arousal with anyone. I always felt ashamed of being like this. For the first time, I don't feel broken anymore." ~ Anastasia
I DON'T FEEL LIKE A BAD PERSON ANYMORE
"I was really wondering if I was a bad person for having the affair. I felt so guilty all the time. Now, even though I don't feel proud of what I did, I can look back and have compassion on myself for why I made those choices. ~Kate
is this for you?
If you are in a painful, unsatisfying, or sexually dead relationship with someone you care deeply about, or perpetually single, and feel like you are not quite sure how to change things, then you're in the right place.
The top three types of women I work with are:
- Powerful Go-Getters .... who are starting to get tired
- Women in relationships where the sex isn't quite working
- Women who want to de-stress and experience more inner peace, pleasure, and connection
Oh, and anyone who reads my website and feels drawn to me, even if they don't quite understand what this is. Usually it's a good fit 😉
My Promise to You
if you choose to work with me, you can count on a therapeutic environment that is:
- Open-Minded, Non-Judgemental, and Shame-Free
- Somatic / Body-Based
- Sex-Positive & Literate on Gender & Sexuality, Kink, and Alternative Relationship Styles
- Heart-Centered & Mindfulness-Based
- Touch-Friendly
- Trauma-Literate and Aware of the Impact of Trauma on Sexual Response
let's Chat
If you feel curious about this, let’s have a chat and see what is possible for you.
You can fill out my intake form here to schedule a complimentary consultation or initial session.
Some people report finding value even just from filling out the intake form, as it asks you some questions that help you think more deeply about your situation.
More Client Love
WE HAD REALLY HOT SEX
"We had really amazing sex last week! THREE DAYS IN A ROW!!!!!
I realized that he just needed to feel emotionally safe with me, and then he was able to stay erect the whole time!! " ~ Rebecca