Do you struggle to feel confident when approaching a woman you're interested in? Do you find yourself getting stuck in "the friend zone" too much?
Are you fresh out of a relationship and want to shift your patterns so you have better luck next time?
Do you feel like your partner doesn't want sex as often as you do? Or like the sex you're having is OK but could be better?
Do you find yourself getting caught in the same patterns or fight with your partner/s?
Are you feeling like it's time for a change in your relationship- whether that is breaking up, opening up, or something different- to help you acheive your desired relationship and intimacy life?
what if i told you
You have the potential to be a sexy rockstar, empowered to get the woman of your dreams to happily go out with you. And then drive her wild in bed. Best part: you can move through this entire interaction in a way that is respectful, caring, and connected.
And... you can create whatever kind of relationship dynamics you want!
You can have relationships with way less drama, fighting, and baggage,
Sound impossible? It's not. All it takes is practice. And a few Pro Tips 😉
what i see happen to so many men
So many men fall into the trap of thinking that they only have two choices:
"The Nice Guy" or "The Asshole"
The Assholes get the hot girls, have mind-blowing sex with them, and then rapidly break their hearts to move onto the next little hottie, or go slam beers with their bro's, or whatever.
The Nice Guys are the ones these girls cry to on the phone about it afterwards. Who bring them Thai food and watch Netflix with them and help them put together their Ikea furniture for 8 hours because, well, that's just what you do.
Or so the myth goes.
 Here's the secret that most men don't know:
What women actually want is a Nice Guy who will seduce them like An Asshole.
Seduction, flirtation, teasing, dirty talk, confidence, the balance of vulnerability and dominance, and strong masculine energy are all skills that can be learned.
So how do you do that?
Practice, my friend.
Right here in this coaching container.
You'll also improve your communication skills, emotional literacy, and general relationship skills. They all interconnect.
Hi, I'm Regina
I help men literally get sexier 😉
I can help you become more confident, magnetic, and connected to your own power.
I help nice guys learn to prioritize their own needs and desires so they can start getting more of what they want.
I help assholes open their hearts.
I can help you learn how to be an amazing lover who is able to practice "presence over performance" - not just in bed, but in every step of dating and relationships.
I help men release shame, trauma, and old programming around love and sex, and learn how to create the intimacy and relationships they really want.
It *is* possible.
MY UNIQUE METHOD FOR MEN's WORK
I work with men using a modality called Somatica™ Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coaching. It’s like a mix of Somatic Therapy and Sex Therapy.
I combine the Somatica Method with other tools like Tantra, Yoga, Mindfulness, Energy Healing, Stress Reduction Coaching, and Hakomi (somatic therapy).
My sessions are Experiential Coaching, which means our coaching relationship is essentially a 'relationship lab' where you get to practice flirtation, running erotic energy, and the different flavors of eroticism, including Romance, Passion, Dominance, and Energy Sex.
We do this within certain professional boundaries (clothes-on, and I *do not* have sex with my clients). Yet the connection between us provides much quicker learning and skill development than a talk therapy setting or coaching where someone is just telling you what to do, but you can't practice.
Experiential Intimacy Coaching can help you to solve sexual challenges, upgrade your relationship patterns, become a communication ninja, and become a bad-ass lover in exponential speed, compared to trying to do it on your own or in regular therapy.
i've helped men
- Become more confident & dominant with women
- Process grief from a big loss in life
- Feel ready to date again after a long dry spell
- Get their mojo back
- Become better lovers. Like, a lot.
- With Stress Reduction & Anger Management
- Figure out what type of relationship structure is right for them
- Recover after an affair
- Heal erectile dysfunction
- Improve pre-mature ejaculation
- Feel held and nourished
- Explore their sexuality or bi-sexual side
- Learn how to turn a woman on more
- Learn tantra for more spiritually connected sex
- Decide whether to break up or stay together... and feel at peace with their decision, either way
What Clients Are Saying
integration of counseling and tantra
"Working with Regina for the last six months has evoked more awareness and growth than 30 years of psychotherapy.
Her integration of Tantra with counseling and compassion is a powerful source of transformation.
Her authenticity and empathy create a safe environment for exploring emotions, sensations, and thoughts that would be inaccessible otherwise.
If you are seeking more vitality, self-awareness, and spiritual consciousness you would do well to connect with Regina "" ~ Jim
AN ALLY in SEXUAL DISCOVERY
"At a time when I needed it most, the universe brought me to Regina.
She curated a safe space with insightful observations, kind words and physical wisdom.
This platform was the perfect set and setting for me to explore and find my most authentic self.  With her guidance and attention I became more at ease with who I truly am, and at ease with the world around me.
SO MUCH MORE HELP THAN I REALIZED
"I came to Regina for help, but I didn’t realize how much she would offer.Â
I knew I needed my own emotional support after acting as a caregiver for my father. I was also curious to discover if I was emotionally available enough to form a healthy relationship.Â
What I liked about her work is that it is based on authentic presence, creating a container that can hold the dynamics that I want to explore. She proved herself skilled both in supporting and identifying my needs, while also helping me process my grief.Â
Regina is intuitive and grounded in holding a space that allows organic growth and recovery. I am very grateful for her wisdom and insight." ~ S
is this for you?
This is for you if you are experiencing any of the challenges above, like lack of confidence, wanting to be a better lover, erectile dysfunction, pre-mature ejaculation, long dry spells, loneliness, focus on performance vs being able to be present and enjoy intimacy, or feeling blocked or avoidant around dating.
Or if you find yourself being too much of a "nice guy" or kinda an "asshole", when what you want is to show up in a way that is sexy, confident, and with your heart open.
The top types of men I work with are:
- Self-aware, sensitive guys who have been in therapy for years and are now ready to work on their sexuality
- Men who are scared of or generally dislike other men
- Men with a history of depression, anxiety, or trauma
- "Nice Guys"
- Alpha males who are super focused on career but want more intimacy
- Techies, geeks, lawyers, scientists, aka smart dudes
- Guys into spirituality, shamanism, Buddhism, or magic
- Any man who wants a better relationship or intimacy life
Oh, and anyone who reads my website and feels drawn to me, even if they don't quite understand what this is. Usually it's a good fit 😉
My Promise to You
if you choose to work with me, you can count on a therapeutic environment that is:
- Open-Minded, Non-Judgemental, and Shame-Free
- Somatic / Body-Based
- Sex-Positive & Literate on Gender & Sexuality, Kink, and Alternative Relationship Styles
- Heart-Centered & Mindfulness-Based
- Touch-Friendly
- Trauma-Literate and Aware of the Impact of Trauma on Sexual Response
let's Chat
If you feel curious about this, let’s have a chat and see what is possible for you.
You can fill out my intake form here to schedule a complimentary consultation or initial session.
Some people report finding value even just from filling out the intake form, as it asks you some questions that help you think more deeply about your situation.
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feELING SAFE HERE
"I guess if you haven't hung up the phone yet, you probably aren't going to.
I feel really safe with you to explore stuff that I've never said to anyone.
I really respect you and this work is really powerful." ~ Julio